FAQ

General

  • Do you speak any other languages besides English?
  • No, unfortunately. However I don't need to speak the deceased person's language to cross them over. The only possible communication barrier is with the person booking the service.
  • You are in Australia and the person died on the other side of the world. Does this affect your ability?
  • Not in the slightest. I have crossed over people from places such as the USA, Africa and South America, amongst others.
  • Can you give me a message from a relative who has passed?
  • No. I don't offer the service of "speaking to the dead", as it is commonly known. My purpose here is in crossing people over. There are people who specialise in that sort of communication and you would do better to seek out someone with that ability.
  • I am younger than 18. Can I use your services?
  • Sorry, no. You must be 18 or over to book a service with Bridge of Light.

Crossing Over

  • Can I get you to find out if someone I know has crossed over or not?
  • Absolutely! Simply fill out the form on the Bookings page.
  • Is it possible to find out if someone famous has crossed over?
  • No, I will not perform that service for you. In the case of the Crossing Over service, you need to be a relative, friend, or associate.
  • Do you ever tell people about who you have crossed? How do I know you won't tell people about my friend or relative?
  • I do not discuss details of who I have crossed, pure and simple. That would be disrespectful to the person I have crossed and to their family and friends.
  • Why can't you be more specific about some of the people you have crossed over?
  • Out of respect both for the person who has crossed and for their loved ones. Losing a loved one can be emotionally and spiritually difficult, often for years to come.
  • How do I know if you have crossed someone over?
  • Unfortunately there is little proof I can give you. Sometimes people do get a feeling that a crossing over has taken place but this is by no means guaranteed. All I can do is to suggest you read the testimonials, each of which were given by real people from real experiences with Bridge of Light. Hopefully the information on the website will demonstrate that I'm both serious and very respectful of this process.
  • Can the manner of death affect the ability to cross over?
  • Each case is individual and it is difficult to make any generalisations. In some cases I have found that the manner of death has affected the crossing over process. Sudden death, for example, or particularly violent death can be quite shocking and disorentating. Having said that, many victims of sudden and violent death have crossed over as easily as someone who died peacefully, and not everyone who dies peacefully crosses over quickly or easily.
  • Does it matter what religion I am?
  • Not that I have found so far. I have crossed over people from various religions and I have great respect for anyone's spiritual and religious belief, even if I don't follow that belief myself. The fact that I have helped someone to cross has no bearing on what happens once they have crossed. However, if you are uncomfortable about this, please consider very carefully if you would like to go ahead as I do not change my process to accommodate anyone.
  • Aren't you afraid that God will judge you for doing this work?
  • No, I do not believe in a god that judges in that manner. The work that I do mostly ends on a peaceful and beautiful note. I am providing healing of a spiritual nature to help people progress through the very first part of their after-life journey only.
  • Can you do group crossings?
  • In certain instances I have directed the Bridge of Light energy to a group of people who might have died together — in a natural disaster for example. Those that can use the energy will then do so. However, this does differ from the individual crossings I perform. If you have interest in a group crossing, please email me with your crossing over situation and I will get back to you.

House Clearing

  • Do you need to visit my house to do a house clearing?
  • No. So far I have done all my house clearings remotely.
  • I have more than one 'ghost' in my house. Do I need to pay you to get rid of each one?
  • Probably not but each situation is very different so I need to judge it on a case-by-case basis.
  • Won't you make the matter worse by making the 'ghosts' angry?
  • In my experience this has never been the case. In fact, quite the contrary! Some of the most beautiful crossings I have done have been with initially resistant and angry spirits.
  • Are there some ghosts or entities you cannot move on?
  • Yes. There are rare times when there is the spirit of a person present in a house but either I am not meant to cross them or simply that I should not. In these cases there is nothing I can do.
  • After you have cleared a house, will the ghosts come back?
  • After I have crossed someone they cannot 'come back'. That does not prevent others from residing in that space again, however.
  • Do we need to do anything in particular while you do the house clearing?
  • No. Should I require anything, I will always let you know.
  • My children are scared of these presences. Will this help them?
  • Children can be very sensitive to these presences, often moreso than adults. If your children's fear is being caused by the presences, then yes, this will help them in some way. Their fears might not immediately subside but in a short time you should see some indication.

Payment

  • If you cannot cross someone over or do a house clearing, do I still have to pay?
  • If for whatever reason the process does not work, then I certainly do not expect a donation.
  • Is there any other way I can pay besides PayPal?
  • PayPal is the main payment method. I can also arrange a bank transfer. If you can only pay another way, then please contact me.
  • I cannot afford this service. Do you give discounts for genuine financial hardship?
  • I always ask for some contribution, no matter how small, as it promotes a better energy transfer between us. Please email me your specific case to info@bridegeoflight.net.

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